I'm putting this photo up here as a reference, should this info eventually make its way to Quentin. Apparently it's taken after the Dubbo Zoo Fun Run in about 1990. Paul is on the left of the shot, Quentin on the right.
Tuesday, March 11, 2014
Searching for Quentin
Paul is looking for an old running friend (old friend, that is, not old person), named Quentin Morley.
I'm putting this photo up here as a reference, should this info eventually make its way to Quentin. Apparently it's taken after the Dubbo Zoo Fun Run in about 1990. Paul is on the left of the shot, Quentin on the right.
I'm putting this photo up here as a reference, should this info eventually make its way to Quentin. Apparently it's taken after the Dubbo Zoo Fun Run in about 1990. Paul is on the left of the shot, Quentin on the right.
Saturday, June 22, 2013
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Friday, October 19, 2012
A snippet, aka Finding the meaning in pink hair.
The Do is a week and a half old now, and three days into pink-ness. I have observed quite a few things since going short (and now pink):
- Some people do judge others by their appearance, and treat them accordingly. It would seem that it is a truth universally acknowledged, that a lady with very short hair (now bleached and pink) and black glasses, must be in want of a wife (Jane Austen, and my gay friends, forgive me. And in a way, I'm loving the raised eyebrows, in solidarity).
- However, the people who matter, don't judge by appearances. Even if they don't like or don't understand what they see. They find it within themselves to be accepting, kind, stalwart, empathising, encouraging - and it doesn't seem to require any extra effort on their parts.
That had me reflecting, on what a simple, but enormously generous gift someone gives you, when they treat you well, regardless of your situation in life. Acceptance, respect, gestures of kindness, can be so uplifting, they can remove the sting of much awfulness, the pain of much discouragement and difficulty. When I think back on the times when I have been the recipient of someone's thoughtfulness, empathy and recognition, it's the essence of those moments that stays with me. Even if it's only a well-timed smile, or the sharing of a story, it makes such a difference in the richness of life. I need to know more about kindness. I can feel a new reading project coming on...
In other trivial moments, No. 1 daughter and I were discussing what I should do next, with the Do. She suggested topiary.
- Some people do judge others by their appearance, and treat them accordingly. It would seem that it is a truth universally acknowledged, that a lady with very short hair (now bleached and pink) and black glasses, must be in want of a wife (Jane Austen, and my gay friends, forgive me. And in a way, I'm loving the raised eyebrows, in solidarity).
- However, the people who matter, don't judge by appearances. Even if they don't like or don't understand what they see. They find it within themselves to be accepting, kind, stalwart, empathising, encouraging - and it doesn't seem to require any extra effort on their parts.
That had me reflecting, on what a simple, but enormously generous gift someone gives you, when they treat you well, regardless of your situation in life. Acceptance, respect, gestures of kindness, can be so uplifting, they can remove the sting of much awfulness, the pain of much discouragement and difficulty. When I think back on the times when I have been the recipient of someone's thoughtfulness, empathy and recognition, it's the essence of those moments that stays with me. Even if it's only a well-timed smile, or the sharing of a story, it makes such a difference in the richness of life. I need to know more about kindness. I can feel a new reading project coming on...
In other trivial moments, No. 1 daughter and I were discussing what I should do next, with the Do. She suggested topiary.
Thursday, October 11, 2012
Why I Shaved My Head...
Back again, after 8 or so months, most of it spent without a computer. You'll be glad to know I wrote many posts for my blog in that time - all in my head, while showering, hanging washing, commuting (esp. that last one - a 3.25 hr daily commute 2 days a week adds up to 26 hours a month on a train). To my 5 readers (no, I'm flattering myself!) - to my 3 readers, I apologise. But at this point, why bother covering the year-that-was, let's just jump to NOW -
BLW, I'd like to say I don't know what I was thinking, but in fact I knew exactly what I was thinking. I was thinking lots of things. And did them.
I know there's lots of blogs out there, where people touch so many readers with their writing on people they love, people they've known, people they've read about, who are dealing with cancer and dealing with loss. It's such a good process, in helping the writer express their feelings and their grief, and helping readers, who hear their own inner voice reflected in what they're reading.
This is not one of those blog posts. Although if it was, I could write about my son's best-friend's dad, who passed away last month, who was a great dad to his boys, and to mine when they were all hanging out together, as they did. He taught the boys to cook, to BBQ, to drink in moderation, to love people, to dream, and to do. He was big into doing things. All sorts of projects went from dream to reality with this guy. He built a catamaran from scratch, in his garage (and out of the garage, under a tarp when it got too big). And while he was doing all this stuff, his boys (and mine) were alongside, maybe only doing their teenage stuff in parallel, but still they saw it all, and there was always an open invitation to have a go and join in. He loved his boys, he was proud of his boys, and he showed it. I only met him a few times - everything else I know about him came from my son, who spent a good bit of his growing up years as the 'extra child' in this man's home.
The kind of love and acceptance he gave these kids, was enabling, and awesome. Together as friends, they aren't frightened to have a go at something, even if it involves making many mistakes, and they aren't sure how it will all turn out. (I put their recent forays into car improvements into the latter category). He taught them all sorts of stuff, not formally, but by doing it, and just being who he was. He walked alongside his boys as long as he could, and when he left this life, he left his boys so much, with skill, love, 'how-to', 'get-on-with-it', and 'bugger-what-anyone-else-thinks'. They will, in their own way, be men in their dad's image, and that is something I can't be sad about.
And so.
To another lovely friend, whose stock-standard greeting to me, as her voice sails across the room, is "How are you, gorgeous girl?" - a tall lady, with bold strides, bold humour, and a manner about her that can lift a whole room into good spirits. She is in the middle of treatment, still greeting me the same way, and wearing the most awesome blonde wig, that never has a bad hair day.
To these special people in my life, I doff my cap. And my hair :-), gone to be 1/6 of a wig for someone with cancer.
BLW, I'd like to say I don't know what I was thinking, but in fact I knew exactly what I was thinking. I was thinking lots of things. And did them.
I know there's lots of blogs out there, where people touch so many readers with their writing on people they love, people they've known, people they've read about, who are dealing with cancer and dealing with loss. It's such a good process, in helping the writer express their feelings and their grief, and helping readers, who hear their own inner voice reflected in what they're reading.
This is not one of those blog posts. Although if it was, I could write about my son's best-friend's dad, who passed away last month, who was a great dad to his boys, and to mine when they were all hanging out together, as they did. He taught the boys to cook, to BBQ, to drink in moderation, to love people, to dream, and to do. He was big into doing things. All sorts of projects went from dream to reality with this guy. He built a catamaran from scratch, in his garage (and out of the garage, under a tarp when it got too big). And while he was doing all this stuff, his boys (and mine) were alongside, maybe only doing their teenage stuff in parallel, but still they saw it all, and there was always an open invitation to have a go and join in. He loved his boys, he was proud of his boys, and he showed it. I only met him a few times - everything else I know about him came from my son, who spent a good bit of his growing up years as the 'extra child' in this man's home.
The kind of love and acceptance he gave these kids, was enabling, and awesome. Together as friends, they aren't frightened to have a go at something, even if it involves making many mistakes, and they aren't sure how it will all turn out. (I put their recent forays into car improvements into the latter category). He taught them all sorts of stuff, not formally, but by doing it, and just being who he was. He walked alongside his boys as long as he could, and when he left this life, he left his boys so much, with skill, love, 'how-to', 'get-on-with-it', and 'bugger-what-anyone-else-thinks'. They will, in their own way, be men in their dad's image, and that is something I can't be sad about.
And so.
To another lovely friend, whose stock-standard greeting to me, as her voice sails across the room, is "How are you, gorgeous girl?" - a tall lady, with bold strides, bold humour, and a manner about her that can lift a whole room into good spirits. She is in the middle of treatment, still greeting me the same way, and wearing the most awesome blonde wig, that never has a bad hair day.
To these special people in my life, I doff my cap. And my hair :-), gone to be 1/6 of a wig for someone with cancer.
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Eine Kleine Nachtmusik
I found some CDs at the Op-shop yesterday, while I had my 3 older kids out shopping for Christmas presents -> all done in one stop at the Salvos (Salvation Army thrift store, for my O/S readers :-). Back to the CDs. Only with my oldest, and next-to-youngest along, have I ever noticed the CD towers, over near the books. They are made from the same mold, those two kids - the kind of people who always stop to smell the roses, maybe take a picture, or render a quick sketch or watercolour of the roses. You know the type. And I have two of them.
So, I found the CDs. And bought... ... a synthesiser Bach compilation (because I like Bach so much, it will sound good to me, even on a synthesiser!); a Tchaikovsky ballet compilation, and an ABC (our version of your NBC, or CBC in Canada) disc compiled for dinner parties (Track 1 is Handel's "Arrival of the Queen of Sheba" - must be one of the most beautiful pieces ever written).
Today I popped out to the stores to get the youngest two to have haircuts (before we lose Knox under his long blond hair), got some shortbread to give our neighbours on each side (yeah, yeah, I should bake, but then what if it tastes gosh-awful, and they'd never say? Plus I have a way of leaving out a key ingredient when I'm making things for special occasions). With that, I think I'm done with preparations for the holidays.
Oh. Except wrapping gifts. I wonder if it's quicker to sew little baggies for the gifts? Maybe, maybe. Hmm, TBA.
And so, I close today (if I can get blogger to co-operate) with some pictures of my very extravagant (3 strings of battery operated lights) light display at the front of my house.
xxx to you all, and I hope you are having a lovely time getting things ready for your special people.
So, I found the CDs. And bought... ... a synthesiser Bach compilation (because I like Bach so much, it will sound good to me, even on a synthesiser!); a Tchaikovsky ballet compilation, and an ABC (our version of your NBC, or CBC in Canada) disc compiled for dinner parties (Track 1 is Handel's "Arrival of the Queen of Sheba" - must be one of the most beautiful pieces ever written).
Today I popped out to the stores to get the youngest two to have haircuts (before we lose Knox under his long blond hair), got some shortbread to give our neighbours on each side (yeah, yeah, I should bake, but then what if it tastes gosh-awful, and they'd never say? Plus I have a way of leaving out a key ingredient when I'm making things for special occasions). With that, I think I'm done with preparations for the holidays.
Oh. Except wrapping gifts. I wonder if it's quicker to sew little baggies for the gifts? Maybe, maybe. Hmm, TBA.
And so, I close today (if I can get blogger to co-operate) with some pictures of my very extravagant (3 strings of battery operated lights) light display at the front of my house.
xxx to you all, and I hope you are having a lovely time getting things ready for your special people.
That's Jacinta putting dinner (that she cooked) on the table, after she'd whizzed off on her bike to the store to get an ingredient she thought we were out of. It was in the cupboard all along, but for once, she had a "guy" look, and didn't find it. Precious daughter.
One Room Done
We cleaned, spirited toys away, and took a quick picture, before someone comes in with boots, another with a bike, shopping, newspapers...
You get the idea. The other rooms are also (a bit) tidier, but not really photo-worthy. Wait until I tidy the roof space and the laundry - I know you're just dying to see those, too :-). Just don't look too closely...
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